Dozen of reasons why people should always get out of their room

“there is no place like home.”

…particularly, your bed. that’s why most people would choose to stay there all day. There you go. The birth of “bed weather” , “hibernation” , and all kinds of things to justify laziness.

Laziness is not cute. It’s just laziness.It really makes me wonder why other people sees others “cute” when they do nothing all day and staying in the bed, with their messy hair and 9-day pajamas, laptop or cellphones in hand, and potato chip crumbs all over the place.

I know you would choose saving your flat than the world but allow me to give you at least 12 reasons to pull you out of your comfort zone disguised as your room.

1. Your comfort zone is not always there. You always have something to do outside. Something more important. hmm I don’t know, RESPONSIBILITIES perhaps?

2. It keeps you from being independent. And you’re already starting by ignoring the small things that should be done.

3. It makes you think that your house is the best place on earth and that is so not good. You know you gotta move on too.

4. Plus, remember that a house is different from home. You maybe happy with your home but it would have been better if that’s a home. Consider those walls and roof as part of happy you or it will be just another cell.

5. Sweat from outdoor activities is different with bed sweat. S*x is not a valid reason.

6. Every individual needs exercise.

7. There are lots of things out there that is destined for you to discover. The small window in your bed room called “computer screen” is no match with the real adventure the outside world has to offer.

8. And you forgot that you are a reliable independent person who doesn’t need a pamper. Or maybe you never was until I told you?

9. Your friends are waiting for you outside. By restricting yourself to go out, you are also placing steel walls between you and your friends.

10. though there are things that are good when done indoors, there are also things that are better when done outside. You can’t play football inside the house. But you can watch TV outside the house and it’s better with barbecue and with friends.

11.Your skin needs Vitamin D from the sun. You’re not a vampire like the ones in the online books you’re reading. Just don’t stay under the sun too much, you’ll regret it.

12. Socializing outside is far different than socializing online. The authentic you is always better than the virtual you.

and there are more.

Laziness is laziness. No matter how much you look at it, laziness is just laziness. Some people even tried to look for scientific explanations to justify their own laziness but in the end of the day, these reasons are just excuses.

Self-Improvement for A Better You

In each day of our lives, we are bound to learn something new. There are all sorts of development opportunities to learn, to develop, and to grow. Thus, never will it be advisable for everyone to stop from learning. We all must make it a habit to ask ourselves before we go to sleep, “What have I learned today?”

As the quote says, “Everyday is a learning process,” and by then, we must not stop to discover what else the world can offer us as long as it will not harm others.

Self esteem creates a happier and a more positive person with a superior mindset built for success. It gives you a much greater ability to influence your life, vocation and the people around you in a mutually beneficial way.

Moreover, self-esteem is important because it can be an intellectual and educational process. It will definitely improve your life skills.

Self improvement can also be a self-help people with emotional and psychological problems that may be hindering their personal growth and preventing them from being successful.

Here are a few ways to become better:

Read a book every day. Books are concentrated sources of wisdom. The more books you read, the more wisdom you expose yourself to. Reading books keep your brain functional and it may bring you to other parts of the world without leaving your place.

Let go of the past. Past is just history. If the past will not be helpful for your life anymore then, it’s definitely time for you to erase it from your mind. Is there any grievance or unhappiness from the past which you have been holding on? If so, let it go. Holding on to them prevents you from moving on and becoming a better person.

Show kindness to people around you. A simple act of kindness can make another person’s life better too. Being kind helps us to cultivate other qualities such as compassion, patience and love. Chances are you will feel even better about yourself. If you can’t be kind to others then don’t be mean as well.

Get out of your comfort zone. Doing something outside your comfy side leads you to open new doors and opportunities. Real growth comes with hard work and sweat. Being too comfortable doesn’t help us grow, it makes us idle. Shake your routine up. Do something different by exposing yourself to a new context; you’re literally growing as you learn to act in new circumstances.

Overcome your fears. All of us have fears – fear of uncertainty, fear of risk, fear of lack, etc. All our fears keep us in the same position and prevent us from growing. Fears are the compass for growth. If you have a fear about something, it represents something you’ve yet to address and addressing it helps you to grow.

Level up your skills. If you are at level 1 today, make sure that you at least be at level 5 a year after. You can’t be on the same level forever because it will leave you stagnant. It is in your hand to level up.

Avoid negative people. These people are no people. Like come on! There is an abundance of what life can offer. Wherever we go, we are bound to be around negative people. Don’t spend too much of your time around them. They will drag you down. It’s not healthy to live full of pessimism. Stay positive!

Take a break. Self-improvement is also about recognizing our need to take a break to walk the longer mile ahead. Take some time off for yourself every week. Relax, rejuvenate and charge yourself up for what’s up ahead.