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Bakit Hindi Ka Dapat Magpaligaw

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Masyadong marami pero sasabihin ko na yung pinaka dahilan kung bakit hindi pwede: Kasi ang panliligaw ay maihahalintulad sa pamimilit.

Hindi ako bitter pero baka hindi ka na rin magpaligaw pagkatapos kong ipaliwanag sayo.

Ang panliligaw marahil ang pinaka-unang hakbang upang magsimula ang isang matibay na pagsasama. Kung dito pa lang sa parteng ito ay magkakamali ka na, siguradong malaki ang magiging epekto nito sa pagsasama niyong dalawa.

Ganito ang istilo ng mga kalalakihan sa panahon ngayon:

1. Pag-Obserba
Kikilalanin ka niya. Marahil bilang isang kaibigan o pag-silip sa Facebook mo. Maari rin sa pagtatanong sa mga tao sa paligid mo. Sa pagkakataong ito ay oobserbahan niya ang iyong kaugalian, estado, kultura, minsan relihiyon, pisikal na pangangatawan, at ang iyong ideal partner. Pag pasado ka, susunod na ang pag-bago niya sa sarili.

2. Pagbago sa sarili
Pipilitan niyang i-adjust ang sarili upang mapansin at magustuhan mo siya. Siya ang magiging ideal guy mo at tiyak na magugustuhan mo siya. At kung sakali namang hindi niya magawa yung ibang mahirap na aspeto (gaya ng pangangatawan), bibigyan ka niya ng ideya na magpapabago sa kagustuhan mo. Halimbawa “Pangit din pag may abs kasi chick magnet. E pag medyo mataba, masarap yakapin.”

3. Panliligaw
Ito ang step kung saan ipapakita niya sa’yo na may interes siya sayo at gusto niyang maging parte ka ng buhay niya. At dahil siya na nga ang ideal guy mo, papayag ka magpaligaw. At sa loob ng maikling panahon na pagpapakilala niya sayo bilang taong pinapangarap mo, ay mahuhulog ka sa kanya.

Wala namang problema doon kung mapapanatili niya ang sarili niya bilang taong hindi totoong siya hanggang sa pag-tanda niyo. Paglumabas ang tunay niyang kulay matapos ang ilang buwan o taon, may pagkakataong ka pa upang ayusin ang lahat. Yoon nga lang, maraming mga araw na ang nasayang. Nakapanghihinayang kung sa loob ng maikling panahon na kasama mo ang maling tao, ay siya namang nagpakita sayo yung totoong taong para sayo. Masasabi kong swerte ka pa. Isipin mo ngayon kung inilabas niya ang tunay niyang pagkatao after ng kasal niyo. Mas malaking problema, diba?

Ganito na lang. Trust your instincts. Sa iyong imahinasyon, gumawa ka ng ideal guy mo. Itsura, estado, ugali, at lahat ng aspetong masasabi mong mapapa-ibig kang talaga. Ang mundo ay may Pitong bilyong tao na may 1:1 ratio, imposibleng hindi mo mahanap ang ideal guy mo. At kung hindi mo siya makita, marahil hindi pa ito ang tamang oras para makilala mo ang taong magpapatibok ng puso mo.

Kung nahanap mo naman na si Mr.Right, ipagtapat mo sa kanya ang tunay mong nararamdaman at wag mo siyang pakawalan. Ingatan mo siya at huwag mong sasaktan. Tandaan mo na kung mutual ang feelings niyo, madali kayong magkakasundo at magkakaunawaan. Ano man ang gawin niyo ay matatanggap ng isa’t-isa.

Hindi niya kailangang manligaw dahil nagpapa-impress lang naman siya sa’yo. Hindi niya pinapakita ang totoong pagkatao niya, bagkos, ipinapakita niya ang taong gusto mong makita sa kanya. Nararapat lamang na magustuhan mo siya sa totoong pagkatao niya at hindi sa pagpapanggap niya.

By Cinderella
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Tips Para Hindi Maging Emotionally Attached

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“Thou shalt learn to let go.” Malamang kasama nito ang “Thou shalt not assume” Sa 10 commandments ng pag-ibig. At kung mahal mo talaga siya, minsan kailangan mo rin talaga bumitaw sa pag-sakal sa leeg niya.

 

Hindi pa tapos ang mga puso ngunit kabi-kabila na ang humuhugot dahil daw tila hindi na sila bida sa paningin ni “mahal. kaya sa araw na ito, tatalakayan naman natin ang mga Tips para hindi ka maging emotionally attached sa isang tao, alinsunod sa ‘Tips para hind imaging assuming’. Tandaan mo, hindi porke hindi siya nag-text ay hindi ka na niya kagad nami-miss.

 

Ang ma-inlove sa isang tao ay hindi biro kaya’t hindi nakakapagtaka na ang bunga nito ay ang pagiging emotionally attached. Palalim ng palalim ang koneksyon at kalaunan ay mahihirapan ka nang tanggalin ang feelings mo lalo na kung ikaw ay in-relationship na sa kanya. Kapag emotionally-attached ka, hindi ka na kaagad mapakali pag hindi siya nagre-reply sa mga texts mo. Paano kung busy lang talaga siya? O wala siyang load? nagiging over-protective ka hindi dahil concerened ka, kundi dahil obsessed ka na. Nawawala sa lugar ang pagse-selos mo at napag-iisipan ng masama ang mga taong nakakasalamuha niya. Lagi mo na rin hinihingi ang atensyon nya kahit alam mong naiistorbo mo siya. Paranoid ka na nga, assuming ka pa.

 

Kaya tuloy imbes na umaasenso ang taong mahal mo, ikaw pa ang lumalabas na humihila sa kanya pababa. Kapag tila hindi na gumagana ang tiwala mo sakanya at hindi parin sapat ang maya’t mayang pag-text niya sayo maging totoo man ang hinala mo o hindi, isa nalang ang sulusyon: kailangan mo nang magbago at iwasan maging emotionally-attached.

 

Hindi gaya ng mga taong naga-assume, kakaunti ang bilang ng mga taong emotionally attached sa taong mahal nila. Naranasan ko ito noong sinabi sa akin ng taong mahal ko na may posibilidad na mangibang-bansa siya sa loob ng tatlong buwan kasama ang boss niya para dumalo sa taunang anibersaryo ng Google dahil may pagkakataong makilala ang kanilang kumpanya ngunit dahil emotionally attached ako sa kanya, hindi pa siya napipili upang sumama ay tinututulan ko na kaagad na para bang aalis na siya bukas. Hindi ko pa napakikinggan ang opinion niya tungkol dito ay nilalatag ko na ang mga pag-move on na gagawin ko kapag umalis siya. Ibinabalita palang niya pero nanginginig na ako sa takot na mawala siya sa akin. Emotionally attached ako at hinila ko pababa ang taong mahal ko dahil sa labis na pagmamahal ko sa kanya.

 

Boom! ‘Yan tayo, eh! Buti nga nagsabi pa siya ng totoo kasi alam niyang masasaktan ako kapag binigla niya ako. Pero ano, hysterical kaagad ang lola niyo dahil sa pagiging emotionally attached ko sa kanya.

 

Masakit kasi na mawalay sa taong mahal mo. Hindi naman puwedeng maging manhid pero hindi rin naman puwedeng sobra-sobrang feelings ang ibigay natin kaya’t upang maiwasan ang labis na attachment kay mahal, heto ang ilang tips na makatutulong sa’yo:

 

  1. Mag-focus sa mga bagay na makakamtan mo sa pamamagitan ng sarili mong lakas. Dahil mayroong mga bagay na hindi kailangan ng dalawang tao upang makamtan. Try mo mag-sports para maging malakas, magtrabahong mabuti upang ma-promote, Mag-aral upang pumasa. Maraming paraan at achievements na puwede mo’ng makamtan mag-isa. be independent. Dahil aminin natin ang totoo, 1 out of 10 lang mag-asawang namamayapa ng sabay.

 

  1. Ibalik ang bisyo noong hindi mo pa siya nakikilala. Iwasan mo yung masama at be considerate sa less harmful na bisyo dahil alam naman natin na lahat ng sobra ay nakaka-sama. Naaalala mo pa ba noong tila hindi ka nagugutom dahil busy ka sa nilalaro mo’ng video game? O tila hindi mo na napapansin ang cellphone mo kasi kilig na kilig ka sa pinanunuod mong koreanobela? Magandang paraan ito upang maiwasan ang labis na pag-focus sa taong mahal mo.

 

  1. Kill yourself inside. Wop! Wop! Wop! Bitawan mo ang kutsilyo. Ang tinutukoy ko ay ang personality sa loob mo. Ito ang pagkatao mo’ng nabuo sa haba ng pinagsamahan niyo ng taong mahal mo. Wala ito sayo noong mga araw na cartoons at jolens pa lamang ang mga bagay na iniisip mo. Mapapatay mo (or at least mapahina mo) ito sa pamamagitan ng pag sabi sa sarili ng mga bagay na posibleng mangyayari sa relationship Dahil walang perfect na relationship at mas mabuti na yung handa ka sa posibleng mangyari. Umiyak ka man, hindi iyan tatagal.

 

  1. Isipin mo ang pamilya mo na naging pinaka malaking kakampi mo sa mga hamon ng buhay. Tandaan mong may posibilidad na talikuran ka ng lahat maliban sa pamilya mo. Sila ang kakampi at 1 supporters mo.

 

  1. Ilagay mo ang mga paa mo sa sapatos niya. Hindi literal. Isipin mo rin ang sitwasyon niya at ang mga pinag-daanan niyong dalawa ng magkasama. Umabot kayo sa puntong ito ng matatag –hindi man sa panigin mo, kahit sa paningin nalang ng ibang tao na naniniwala sa kakayahan niyong magtagal at basagin ang pader ng #WalangForever ng hawak kamay with fireworks Isipin mong mabuti dahil sa ngayon, ikaw na ang higit na nakaka-kilala sa kanya. Isipin mo, kung ako siya, ano kaya ang ginagawa ko ngayon? Ano kaya ang mga iniisip ko?

 

  1. Matutong lumingon sa likod. Dahil hindi lang siya ang mundo mo. Paano naman ang mga taong naka-sandal sa likod mo? Mga taong umaasa at nag-aalala sayo? Masyado ka nang nagpo-focus sa kaniya. Siya lang ba ang tao sa mundo? Isipin mong may buhay ka bago mo siya nakilala at ganoon din naman siya.

 

  1. Be fair at ibalik ang saktong pagtingin na ibinibigay niya sa’yo. Huwag mong ibigay ang 100% dahil alam naman natin na masakit ang umasa at mag-mahal ng buong puso.

 

  1. Sinabi ko rin ito sa ‘Tips upang hind imaging assuming’. Sa lahat ng mga payo, ito talaga ang una mong dapat gawin. Walang masama sa pagtatanong at walang namamatay sa pagtatanong. Minsan kailangan mo rin manghingi ng payo sa iba dahil maaaaring naranasan na nila ang ganito at makatulong ang experience nila sayo.

 

Sabi nga ni Elsa, “Let it go~”.

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Signs you Need to Let Go of your Relationship

There are things you can’t control and things you don’t want to happen in your life, but somehow it will eventually happen. It’s not the issue of who’s making the mistakes but about making the right choices. Because people always do stupid, selfish thing that may lead to faults. To some extent that you’re still wishing that somehow, something may change if you stay patient. Deep inside you know you’re just making an excuse for yourself. You feel the guilty of leaving your partner because of the attachment you made. You’re stuck in the past that you think you can’t move on.

Here are some signs you need to know it’s time let him/her go:

Obsession in a different level

Signs you Need to Let Go of your Relationship

Obsession can be from love to hate, like an addiction on something or someone. If you’re feeling this kind of emotion, you might want to consider to let go of that relationship before you became a psychopathic maniac. It’s time you stop before you lose your mind. This kind of emotion can affect your future and everyone around you. Take note that it will also scare the hell out of your partner. The more you drag yourselves in that hollow world of imagination of yours the more it devours your integrity as a person. Reflect on yourself and ask if it’s really love or obsession. If it is another way around better talk to your partner as soon as possible before you created a next door, psycho.

Cheating partners

If you prove it right that’s it, no more explanation needed, a cheater will always be a cheater. But there are some instances that they forgive their partner for doing it. Always remember this line; once is enough, two is too much, thrice is insane, and the fourth one, that is a huge stupidity. You deserve to be treated right, love yourself more, and find yourself peace. Remember, letting go of this kind of person is not a loss but  gain to you.

Foot on neck

Signs you Need to Let Go of your Relationship

If you ever feel you’re not confined or imprison if your partner is not around. The time you feel more comfortable when you’re alone with your friends rather than staying with your partner. Maybe it is time to asks why you feel this and consider a fact that you need to let go. Somehow the main reason for this sign is of lack of privacy, it’s like your neck is on their feet ready to step and choke you if don’t follow their rules and it’s so hard to breath with it. If you must know, a relationship is all about figuring out differences and how you handle them in a fine way. Give space if you must and don’t declare Martial law to your partner. Remember that respecting each other privacy is one of the keys in having a good relationship. You should know your boundaries and limitations to each other.

Miserable at best

If you’re consistently not enjoying yourself when you’re out on with your partner that supposedly to be a fun date, it’s probably time to end things with him/her. Clearly you need to get out of that relationship, I know it’s hard to break your relationship up, but doing it is much easier than not. Staying with your partner and prolonging that connection will only lead to more frustration and resentment and also may lead to harder consequences that you may regret in the future.

Intention of breaking up

Most of the time, when you are seriously considering breaking up but you haven’t done it yet because of something. You often think that it would be easier not tell your partner about it. It is normal in some instances but If these are thoughts you experiencing all of the time. Well you need to consider that you need to let go of your relationship.

Signs you Need to Let Go of your Relationship

In a relationship, sometimes doing what you know is right always may not be the right choice. Sometimes you have to watch things from a distance to see things more clearly. You have to take a step back to think more clearly. You might believe that you respecting your partner’s feelings, but as far as this sign is a concern you’re not. If you ever feel this signs  maybe it’s time you think about letting go of that relationship before  more damage is done. It is unfair to yourself to keep trying to justify why you’re holding on to toxicity. When you finally  learn to let go something better come along.

TODAY'S TRIP

The Breakup Checklist

the break up checklistBreakups are never easy. They never were. Countless movies were made to illustrate ways on how people can distract themselves from the hardship that comes along with it.

Post-breakup outcomes are usually messy, but the goal is to survive this phase without making a mess of yourself. Why? Because there will come a time when you have gathered your wits and realize that life is still worth living. But to reach that Point B from your murky Point A, you have to ensure that your feelings at this point will not be an impediment to your bright future.

Now that the WHY is clear, let’s hash out the How’s.

Wallow if you must, but just for a time.
It is truly advisable, albeit hard, to muster all your courage to coach yourself and preach to yourself when all you wanted to do is curl up in your bed and cry. Allowing yourself to wallow for days, even weeks, is helpful. But you have to remind yourself later on of your purpose of living, and it’s definitely not found on that just-ended relationship. This shows strength of character, and strength of character is your capital to living the life that you want post-breakup.

Consider the past a friend.
This part may take some time to really sink into your consciousness. Any victory or tragedy rewards us with insight, and it’s your responsibility to use that as leverage over your future experiences. It is crucial to be able to grasp what this experience is teaching you about men/women, about life in general and most importantly about yourself. Recall where you went wrong, what things tick you off, what an ideal relationship is to you, and what qualities of a partner are important to you, as these are crucial to your future relationships.

When feelings overwhelm you, avoid social media at all cost.
Sub-tweets, cryptic status updates and stalking will be tempting for sure but it will greatly help if you avoid lashing out on anyone or anything online for now. You will never know who is reading and listening on the other end of your post-breakup “reflections”. Words can be deleted but its unforeseen consequences can be costly.

Create your own “happy place”.
Get a journal and list down the things that make you happy and more importantly, what makes you; reminding yourself who you are outside of a relationship works like magic and gives you a new center. Work on one thing each day that gets your closer to your goals. Go to places you’ve never been to before and experience things you’ve never done before. There is a Spanish word called Querencia that perfectly illustrates this point. Querencia is “a place where one feels secure”, “a place from which one’s strength of character is drawn”.
“In Spain, it is the place in the ring where the wounded bull goes to renew his strength and center himself, ready for a fresh charge. What a beautiful concept: A place in which we know exactly who we are, the place from which we speak our deepest beliefs.”

Seek the presence of family and friends.
While it is important to seek the counsel of your inner relationships, specifically family and friends, it is not healthy to dwell on the negativity post-breakup. Sometimes words will just feel off and empty, and at that time you will appreciate the mere presence of a loved one. It is a strong reminder that you have all you need, and it will keep you grounded as well.

Sweets.
This is a mandatory companion for post-breakup. Just remember that breakups can be healthy when you move and decide from the perspective of growth. A tub of salted caramel ice cream is just a fun treat throughout this journey.

Not because your relationship has ended, you won’t make it till the end of time. You slipped, you manage to get up!

TODAY'S TRIP

The Seven Stages of a Relationship You NEED to KNOW

The Seven Stages of a Relationship1Most relationships go through severeal crucial stages of development wherein they either flounder or flourish, depending on how things turn out for the couples concerned. To build a stronger and healthier partnership, it helps to know where it stands at the moment and learn how to succesfully move through each stage.

 

Stage 1: Attraction

In a sea of people, someone caught your attention – and you felt a sudden surge of emotions embracing your whole being, a palpable warmth inside your heart. You feel happy, inspired and on top of the world.

It’s called attraction – that “hormone-crazy” stage when the body fires (or misfires) those electrical impulses and chemical reactions that we usually associate with “love”. This is also the stage when the term “fascination” figures prominently and a person senses an attraction that remains rather mysterious and unexplainable.

Stage 2: Discovery

At this point, the love chemicals pulsing through the brain have possibly dried up as one to know the other person on a deeper level – including the bad traits, strange quirks and different points of view. Hence, this can either be a wonderful or a disappointing experience for the individuals concerned, as they realize their incompatibilities or compatibilities and what not. It’s a matter of decision then, whether to go on with the relationhsip or end it here.

Stage 3: Commitment

A deeper knowledge about your partner gives you the confidence and security that you have probably found the soulmate you’ve been looking for. This observable chemistry leads to your decision to enter into a committed relationship, where the uncertainties in the previous stages begin to fade in the background. The challenge, however, that couples usually confront at this stage is monotony and boredom when they start overlooking the importance of “romance” in their relationship. A couple moves past this stage through constant communication.

Stage 4: Power Struggles

At this stage, couples negotiate in order to get the most out of a relationship. It can be impersonal (“where to have dinner”) or personal (intimacy, family matters, religions, etc)

This is a tricky stage as the balance-of-power in a relationship keeps on shifting between the male and the female. To resolve such issues, it is important for both parties to recognize and respect each other’s individuality and learn to compromise.

Stage 5: Growth and Stability

As both learn to reconcile each other’s differences and go through trials and tests, they achieve a certain level of maturity as individuals and as partners. Learning from the past, they now move forward with the goal of helping each other grow and become better adults. Here, communicating each other’s needs, dreams and expectations become an integral part of the growth process so as to avoid regrets and resentments.

Stage 6: Romantic Love

Stage 1 is arguably the most thrilling and exciting phase in relationship because it involves physical attraction, adrenaline rush, sexual longing and jealousy. But romantic love is actually the most wonderful part because the union is already strengthened by comfort, security, communication and sexual chemistry. But couples should still consciously nurture their partnership and make it better or it will be easy to split into a lower stage once crisis arises.

Stage 7: Crisis and Recovery

Problems can occur at any point in the relationship, thus, it is considered the most critical phase. A crisis can take the form of an illness, a death of a child, loss of job, or an affair. Successfully overcoming these ordeals lies in the teamwork and the give-and-take relationship of the couple. The good thing is recovery from these difficulties will help equip them in coping with further challenges along the way and make the foundation of their relationship stronger.

So, on what stage do you think you and your partner are in right now?

TODAY'S TRIP

7 Signs na HINDI ka pa Nakaka-MOVE ON

123588_v0_460xTanggapin man natin o hindi, isa sa pinakamahirap na prosesong malas na pinagdaraanan ng magkarelasyon ay ang paghihiwalay sa malinaw at hindi malinaw na mga dahilan. Pero kung ano man ang mga ito, siguradong wala nang mas hihirap pa sa mga buwan o mga taon na nananatili pa rin sa isip mo si Ex.

Well, ayon sa istatistika, halos 87% ng naghihiwalay na magkasintahan ay nagiging magkaaway. Wala nang kibuan, magpaparinigan na, gagamit ng iba’t ibang taktika para mapalitaw ang pride na mayroon ang isa’t isa.

Ang mga sumusunod ay ilan sa mga posibleng signs na hindi ka pa nga talaga nakaka-move on.

  1. Assuming ka. Kahit hindi naman niya tinitingnan ang Twitter o Facebook account mo, iniisip mo pa rin na karamihan sa mga status o tweets niya ay tungkol sa’yo. Example nag-tweet siya ng “I love this life!” Iisipin mo na kaagad na masaya siya dahil wala na kayo. Though, puwede namang gano’n pero isipin mo rin sana na hindi lang sa’yo umikot ang mundo niya. Ay mali, hindi na pala sa’yo UMIIKOT ang mundo niya. So, huwag assuming.funny-memes-some-girls
  2. Ipo-folder muna kita. Lahat ng messages, chats, sweet photos, mga kanta at kung anu-ano pang pinagpapalitan niyo noon online ay naka-save pa sa isang folder sa harddrive ng laptop o e-mail account mo. Ang pangalan ng folder usually ay “Forgetting you” o di kaya “Bittersweet memories”. Nakakatawa man, ito ang mga pangalang puro tungkol sa pagkalimot pero hindi mo naman madelete-delete. Bakit kaya?Overly Attached Girlfriend Emails
  3. Hoping. Iniisip mo pa rin na binabasa ni ex ang mga tweets mo at Facebook status. Ang mga pinopost mo ay mga kanta tulad ng “Someday” ni Nina o di kaya “I love you, Goodbye”. Maaaring mag-vary ito kung kailan nakakaramdam ka ng lungkot. Either ise-share mo ‘yong youtube vid na nakita mo o ‘di kaya magtu-tweet ka ng isang quote na iniisip mong mapapansin pa rin niya, then iisipin mong matatauhan siya tapos makakatanggap ka ng text mula sa kanya. Asa.Me-after-a-break-up
  4. Blocked. Kailangan pa bang ipaliwanag? Kung okay na, bakit pa kailangang mahirapan kang makita ang profile niya sa Instagram, Facebook o Twitter? Tapos ano? Gagawa ka ng fake accounts para makapag-stalk ka pa rin.BLOCK-YOUR-EX-ON-FACEBOOK-THEN-CREATE-FAKE-PROFILE-TO-SPY-ON-HIM-672.png
  5. Stalker much. Pero aminin mo man o hindi, ‘pag tiningan yung history sa internet browser mo, nandoon pa rin ‘yong Facebook, Instagram o Twitter page niya. Isa o dalawang beses sa isang linggo, tinitingnan mo kung kumusta na siya. Kumusta kung may iba na siya o kung naka-move on na ba siya.Your-Move-When-You-Check-Out-Your-Ex--s-Profile-Funny-Meme-Picture
  6. I need you, friends. Dahil sinaktan ka o ikaw ang nang-argabyado, kailangan mo pa rin ng mga kaibigan na makaka-chat o masasabihan kung gaano ka-hayop ang ex mo. Siyempre, dahil totoo siyang kaibigan, ang masasabi niya na lang ay “Oo nga, mamatay na sana siya. You don’t deserve him/her!”. Dito maglalabasan ang mga negative comments ng mga friends mo na kinimkim nilang hindi sabihin sa’yo noong kayo pa ng ex mo para hindi ka ma-hurt.nAim4
  7. Bitter. Hindi ka masaya sa kaligayahang mayroon siya ngayon. Para sa’yo halimaw siya. Kapag nabanggit pangalan niya, sinasabi mo pa rin “Please don’t say bad words!” Hindi mo matanggap na ang minsang matamis ay naging mapait din, katulad ng ipinakikita mong ugali ngayon.Break-Up_o_92312

Marami pang hindi nakalista, pero kung isa o dalawa na lang dito ang natitira sa’yong signs, binabati kita! Nakakamove-on ka na. Kung marami-rami pa, naku! Mahaba-haba pang biyahe ‘yan pero sa bandang huli, walang TOTOONG tutulong sa’yo kung hindi ang sarili mo. Swear.

Ano man ang dahilan ng hiwalayan, lahat ‘yan ay may malalim na dahilan. Pagtanggap na mayroon ka ring buhay bago siya dumating. Pagtanggap na ano man ang mangyari, kasaysayan na lang kayo at natuto kayo sa bawat isa. Hindi na kailangang magkasakitan pa. Ang importante ay hinihiling mo pa rin ang kabutihan ng buhay niya at karma na rin para sure.

Aminin mo man o hindi, naging mundo mo rin siya noon. Kinabaliwan mo rin siya.

Iba-iba ang bawat relasyon, iba-iba ang bawat pagsisimula at pagtatapos. Kung natapos na, tanggapin, matuto at mabuhay muli.

Kawawa ka naman kung siya, totoong maligaya na pero ikaw umaasa pa rin na babalikan niya.