In life, before you succeed you face temporary defeat and failures. And as you grow, life doesn’t get easier, all the hardship and trial you’ll face will be more difficult than the last time. As the famous quote say “Never let defeat have the last word” by C. David Heymann. If you do this, you’ll just get stronger as the time pass by. When defeated, it overtakes oneself and sometimes the only easiest way to do is to quit. Yes, That is exactly what the majority of people do. Quitting to avoid more damage.
Remember you are not alone other people fail too. Failure is normal, lots of people fail time to time before meeting success. If a situation goes wrong, have the strength to move on. It’s all too easy to make excuses for a situation that simply isn’t right. You’ve got to stand up and do your own battles, challenge yourself and take action. No change will come if you are not willing to take the risk.
Accepting failure happens when you understand success. Defeat is for the brave people. Only who have courage will know the honor of losing and the joy of winning. You know failing is part of lives, people who have never been defeated are the ones who never fought. They are the one who avoid scars and humiliations. The word defeat is not the worst of failures but not to try is the true failure itself.
You cannot guarantee success, in life there are different odds. It is like tossing a coin and choosing head or tail. There is no 100% probability on what it will come. You may lose and you may be wrong, but life doesn’t stop there. Even you choose the wrong side, you can always try again. Push through it and next time believe that you can. Sometimes it takes a good fall to really know where you stand.
Things aren’t always what it seems to be but with time you will have a better understanding. Because as you fail you learned, you get stronger. You’ll find yourself that the only things you are in control in this world are the choices you make. On the back of every mistaken venture and defeat is the laughter of wisdom, if you just listen.